Husband first; not cancer. Heart is not good though. Genetic defect, and genetic cholesterol issues, which cannot be controlled with meds, and aren't changing no matter what diet/lifestyle changes we make. Prognosis if they don't is 2-5 years, then monster heart attack.
Teenager; now living with my mother. Had another fly off, and we did the crunch. Hopefully having that space will allow us to maintain a relationship, and him to grow and regain balance.
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